Tuesday, December 12, 2017

Fearless Fitness/Martial Arts: Who is your Sensei ...."There can be only one" !

Fearless Fitness/Martial Arts: Who is your Sensei ...."There can be only one" !:           So many are responsible for shaping my development. For years I have been mentored by those I choose, ....not only one. From...

Who is your Sensei ...."There can be only one" !

          So many are responsible for shaping my development. For years I have been mentored by those I choose, ....not only one. From each I learned and experienced signifigant and diverse things.

Mentorship is the impartation of
information. Mentorship is accepting
perfect knowledge from an imperfect
man. Your mentor is anyone who
consistently teaches you what you want
to know. It was the secret of Elijah
and Elisha; Moses and Joshua; Paul
and Timothy. Pursue and extract the
knowledge of the mentors that God has
made available to your life. Mentorship
Is Learning Through The Pain of
Another. Your Future Is Determined By
Who You Choose To Believe.

“A wise man will hear, and will
increase learning; and a man of understanding
shall attain unto wise counsels,”
(Proverbs 1:5).



Understanding different relationships
People come into your life for a season. Others entertain various parts of your life. We need to understand that everyone will treat us differently.
 Dr Mike Murdock said,
People are different around different people. 
Some manipulate via affection.
 Few love enough to put another first.” 

That puts two things into question:
1) A person’s self-esteem
2) A person’s values




Proper use of relationships will result in proper life managementIt’s not just in being disciplined enough to manage your time but also people. You will need to know why some people come into your life. You see some want you to be a friend. Some want you to be a confidante. Some want you to be a “Ladder” to their future.


A great example in my mind is former World Kickboxing Champion Dennis Alexio who publicly talked about Joe Lewis as a mentor then snubbed him once he was World Champion..

You must be willing to listen to others.
 We all see through different eyes, feel with different hearts, and hear with different ears.

 Involve as many people as possible in your dream.
 You need people to assist you in order to achieve your dream. 
Solomon wrote and reached out to many to assist him in the building of the Temple.

He listened to people.
He listened to kings.
He listened to leaders.
He even listened to two quarreling harlots.


 He listened to enthusiastic voices of encouragement wherever he found them.

 Fall in love with people and people will fall in love with you. 
“People don't care how important you are, 
it's important that you care.”
Remembering this simple key can make a profound difference.
  • Those around you are great. Become worthy of them.
  • Those around you can become great. Become their “bridge to greatness.”
  • Uncommon achievers recognize and reward other uncommon achievers.
In In retrospect I wonder how many of my achievments were empty 'rewards".
I aspire to create uncommon achievement in others and through this I am building a legacy  forged in a unified fire of wills , mine and my student.

Monday, December 11, 2017

Fearless Fitness/Martial Arts: In Your Corner

Fearless Fitness/Martial Arts: In Your Corner:    Success in business, victory on the field or in the ring requires a leader who promotes teamwork, tenacity, perseverance and, above all e...

In Your Corner

   Success in business, victory on the field or in the ring requires a leader who promotes teamwork, tenacity, perseverance and, above all else, the unrelenting desire to win. 








   By chasing the unattainable, perfection; we can catch excellence.. Good coaching can achieve victories but true victory is achieved by changing lives.










 From a young age, we're raised to believe that we can accomplish pretty much anything so long as we work hard enough to achieve it. And, for the most part, that makes sense, at least intuitively. If you study for three hours while your roommate studies for one, you'll probably do better on the test. If you spend 50 hours at work every week while your peer spends 30, you'll stand a better chance of getting a raise or a promotion.




  A cornerstone belief of Western culture is, as long as you work hard, you're going to be successful.The problem with this philosophy is hard work isn't always enough.
Hard work isn't efficient work.  If it takes the person next to you three hours to complete a task that you could have completed in an hour.
Hard work doesn't encourage innovation. You need to try new tactics and strategies, incorporate new ideas and learn new things. constantly.
"Sometimes the teacher, Always the student"
I remember the day I first walked into the gym / dojo and put on the focus mitts first. I warmed up the fighters, one after another, and then followed them around yelling out adjustments while they trained and sparred. I didn’t notice it then but this was my first time in the gym without wrapping up.
In fact, the mitts stayed on my hands the whole time. It wasn’t until the session ended when I realized…“Oh shit, I’m a fight trainer now.”
A part of me died inside that day.
 “I’m still too young! I can still fight!”
I always thought of myself as a fighter. I never fantasized about being a trainer. 
I've learned to coach every fighter differently. It’s about accepting the fighter and accepting his or her results. Some fighters are faster. Some fighters have more power. Some fighters have more stamina. Some fighters will win more than others. Success means different things to different people. For some, success is a gold medal. For others, it’s surviving one whole fight. For many, it’s losing weight and looking sexy.

 Whatever the individual’s goal is, you have to respect that. It is THEIR GOAL, not yours....

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Monday, January 2, 2017

Fearless Fitness/Martial Arts: THE SIGN POST UP AHEAD

Fearless Fitness/Martial Arts: THE SIGN POST UP AHEAD: On your last day on earth, the person you became will meet the person you could have become. -Anonymous - The New Year is coming , ...

Sunday, January 1, 2017

THE SIGN POST UP AHEAD

On your last day on earth, the person you became will meet the person you could have become.
-Anonymous-
The New Year is coming , time for resolutions change and rebirth.
The most common is the elimination of bad habits and a commitment to get fit.
Take care of your body. It’s the only place you have to live.
- Jim Rohn- 
Healthy diet and physical activity are the first two steps 
The difference between a short term habit and a long term goal is really,
 a matter of goal setting, writing them down and most importantly sticking to it. 
Life is like a card game; it's not so much the cards your delt but how you play them. 
Overnight success is a myth . Slow and steady wins the race.
Think smart not hard.
Coach Tony Blauer talks about reverse engineering a fight or an ambush 
to create a more accurate training model. This method is called science. 
If we reverse engineer our own life experience we are more likely to succeed
than hoping for a magic bullet or a first responder to sweep us from
 the arms of danger or failure. Fear of failure, success or even the unknown 
is the single greatest cause of failure, in life, love or self defense .

Fear is a normal human emotion. It is not in itself a killer. We can learn to be aware when fear grips us, and can train to operate through and in spite of our fear. If, on the other hand, we don’t understand that fear is normal and has to be controlled and overcome, it will paralyze us and stop us in our tracks. We will no longer think clearly or rationally. We prepare for it and control it; we never let it control us.

-Gen Colin Powell-

Knowing what you can and can't control allows focus on one task with laser precision and see it through rather than 'shotgun blasting' all the obstacles at once, leaving most unfinished.Along the way you'll sacrifice some things that in the end will seem insignificant compared to the achievement of your goal. In other words , you'll sacrifice little to achieve much.

The Haters

This year I learned a valuable lesson about all successful people,they have haters.
Having a growing number of haters means your doing something significantNo matter what not everyone is going to like you especially if you are authentic.

The only way to avoid pissing people off is to do nothing. My friend Allison is constantly 'Banning the snowflakes' on her FB page.
The future is a blank page, there are no secrets or guaranties  for success only hard work, preperation, dedication and the willingness to get back up seven times after failing six.
-Buckland-


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Sunday, December 18, 2016

State of Grace

Theology describes perseverance as a continuing state of grace until death.
 
 Success is no accident it's hard work, perseverance, learning, studying, sacrifice and most of all a love of what your doing or learning to do. 'Heart' is that extra something that separates the achiever from the rest, it's the passion and stamina that makes dreams reality despite adversity.
 
 
Spiderman has an indomitable will that gives him the determination to accomplish all his goals. He grew up with two very moral and righteous people who taught him to always do the right thing, and more importantly, to never give up. His Aunt May and Uncle Ben instilled the virtues of perseverance, determination, willpower, a moral compass, work ethic, and kindness. Spiderman is relentless in his pursuit of justice for all, and his alter ego, Peter Parker, is just as relentless in his goals of making his own way and succeeding both in school and life.
 
 
An occasional Team Fearless student, Connor Hood shares a lot of the same attributes as the web slinger. The day before his first indoor track meet Connor could hardly left his leg after a 'slip and fall'. We worked on a few stretches in an effort to regain some of his flexibility so he could still compete. HE DID IT !!!
 
 
The most important things in your life may never be seen they can only be felt by the heart. The sacrifice, the pain and the overcoming it even in the smallest acts is the secret to success and happiness.
 
Have passion for what you do. Pursue tirelessly your dreams because without a fighters heart your life will be like a sunless garden, full of dead flowers.
 
Train on ! See you in class, Join our journey........... 
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Success is no accident. It is hard work, perseverance, learning, studying, sacrifice and most of all, love of what you are doing or learning to do.
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