Wednesday, December 26, 2012

Fearless Fitness/Martial Arts: You Talk to Much

Fearless Fitness/Martial Arts: You Talk to Much: Have you begun a conversation with someone expecting a dialogue  and discover the partner in this dialogue is engaging in a monologue?...

Monday, December 24, 2012

Fearless Fitness/Martial Arts: The Anatomy of Courage

Fearless Fitness/Martial Arts: The Anatomy of Courage: A coach must be able to help a student to believe in oneself.  He must build self-esteem before confidence can surface.    Self-esteem...

The Anatomy of Courage

A coach must be able to help a student to believe in oneself.
 He must build self-esteem before confidence can surface.
 
 Self-esteem gives rise to self-confidence;
 not the other way around.
 A coach must understand this process to develop a student’s
 level of consciousness.
 
 Consciousness is one’s ultimate survival tool in a real altercation,
 not some technique or style of martial arts.
 
 For a fighter,
 the authority of one’s will is their ultimate attribute.
 
-Joe Lewis-
 

Vicky Soto,
A non-trained woman of exceptional courage
gave her life that others may live.
Her selfless act should be a cornerstone on all our lives.
 
So many people with the will and strength to survive being overcome by violence engage in and lose a fight for their lives  because they're out-massed, out-gunned and untrained. 
 
 Try to stop a moving car by getting in front of it instead of turning off the ignition.
Seeing a person as a machine—and then shutting it off—goes against everything we are and love.

It is a failure of our humanity and our society.

All of us wish we could have been at the verge a of disaster with a firearm,
 or at least armed with knowledge and skill and in the right place at the right time.
 
    Practice means that when it matters most it won’t be the first time you’ve done it, but the 101st.
That fantasy of making a difference is made real by preparation.

The worst time to be reminded that you meant to learn CPR,
is when someone is having a heart attack right in front of you.
 
  There is no beast within you waiting to be unleashed as your window of existence begins to close.
  You will only have what you brought with you.
 
Right now.......
You know how to run and you know how to hide. 
 
.
This is why I teach and train.
 
 I can’t be with you every moment of every day. 
 But the information, the knowledge can. .

You Talk to Much

Have you begun a conversation with someone expecting a dialogue
 and discover the partner in this dialogue is engaging in a monologue?


What differentiates us from animals is that we can listen to others dreams,
 fears, joys, sorrows, desires and defeats and they can listen to ours,

    Let every person be quick to hear,
 slow to speak, slow to anger.
-James 1:19-

Good listening skills are important in life and in sales.
Monopolizing a conversation  makes others uncomfortable, even agitated.
 It negatively impacts establishing rapport or a common bond with a prospect.

 behind effective communication is the skill of being a good listener,
even when your partner says something hurtful or that you don't agree with.

Trust your Trainer (Joe Lewis)

 Listen to your trainer and don't allow your ego to dictate your actions.
This all boils down to following directions.
 Trust your trainer, do what he says.
Don't fall into the trap of letting your ego override your strategy.

Listen !!!
Self-esteem gives rise to self-confidence;
not the other way around.
A coach must understand this process to develop a student’s
level of consciousness.
Consciousness is one’s ultimate survival tool in a real altercation,
not some technique or style of martial arts.
For a fighter,
the authority of one’s will is their ultimate attribute.
-Joe Lewis-


Monday, December 17, 2012

Fearless Fitness/Martial Arts: 'Cooler than Superman'...Dylan Hockley

Fearless Fitness/Martial Arts: 'Cooler than Superman'...Dylan Hockley: A life may last just for a moment,  but memory can make that moment last forever. Twenty first graders were gunned down on Dec. 14 ...

'Cooler than Superman'...Dylan Hockley

A life may last just for a moment,
 but memory can make that moment last forever.
Twenty first graders were gunned down on Dec. 14
 at
Sandy Hook Elementary School.
   Along with the students, the lives of six school staffers,
 including a teacher and a  principal, were lost  in Newtown, Connecticut.

.
 'Cooler than Superman'...Dylan Hockley age 6 loved kickboxing..........

It's said.....
Your spirit does not die, it goes to the spirit world.
 You will continue to learn and progress and may be with loved ones who have passed.

Im actually smiling through tears....
 Dylan gets to train with my friend Joe Lewis.
.
There is a Mexican saying that we die three deaths:
 the first when our bodies die,
 the second when our bodies are lowered into the earth out of sight,
 and the third when our loved ones forget us.

Team Fearless will not forget
 Dylan Hockley


Jesus said,
 “Let the little children come to me,
 and do not hinder them,
 For the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these.”
 
- Matthew 19:14-

http://www.dylanhockley.com/#

Sunday, December 16, 2012

Get off of my land !!!

Welcome to Sioux Falls, South Dakota !
Founded in 1856,Sioux Falls is the largest city in the U.S. state of South Dakota.
 The city was abandoned, sacked and resettled.

A prehistoric people  left numerous burial mounds on the high bluffs near the river.
 Later residents built fortified villages on many of the same sites.

There descendants are a population of 153,888 people.
 Residents live in fear of a militant law enforcement community.

Divorce capital of the nation
Beginning in the 1880s,
lax oversight on the part of local judges re: sworn testimony caused word to spread countrywide that divorce was easily obtained in Dakota Territory.
As a result Sioux Falls became known as the"divorce capital".
 The phenomenon had ended by the early 1900s.
Today's militant law enforcement community is dead set on the prevention of woman's rights.

On guard:
Investigators from the attorney generals office led by Investigator "Dave...", 
and Police officers converged on the Courtyard Marriott hotel at about 6am.
They emerged from unmarked black SUVs' and shouted at unarmed guests,
 "Get Off of my Land !"
The tense stand-off  ended about twenty hours later.
Two elegantly dressed women,
 with no previous criminal history's were eventually wrongfully arrested.
After being degraded and strip searched the women were released.



Authors note:
   Sources have confirmed that Chief Investigator 'Dave....'  had been caught engaged in "homosexual acts" by his first two wives resulting in his fear and hatred of women. 

  Clinical psychologists believe that this is what led to his maniacal hatred of women.
They said,"An individual like this fears exposure to his homophobic coworkers."

  Still unconfirmed are reports of bestiality and pedophilia by this same investigator.

Wednesday, December 12, 2012

Fearless Fitness/Martial Arts: Ode to Matthew

Fearless Fitness/Martial Arts: Ode to Matthew: He teacheth my hands to war.   I shall pursue my enemies and overtake them.    I shall not return until I finish them off. I shall ass...

Monday, December 10, 2012

Fearless Fitness/Martial Arts: The Double Edged Sword

Fearless Fitness/Martial Arts: The Double Edged Sword: The holiday season for most people is a fun time of the year filled with parties, celebrations and social gatherings with family and frie...

The Double Edged Sword

The holiday season for most people is a fun time of the year filled with parties,
celebrations and social gatherings with family and friends.

The First Santa

Odin was the god of wisdom, magick and occult knowledge, runes, poetry and war.
 His name means “the inspired one”.
 Like a shaman he could travel in other worlds to gather more insight.
  Odin was depicted as a tall, old man with a white beard and wearing a cloak.

Odin rode the skies and the seas on his fast white horse Sleipnir with his 8 legs
 (the number of transformation) .
 He carried his never missing spear Gungnir (clear and focused intent) in his hand.

He had only one eye.

He had offered his other eye in exchange for wisdom at the well of the Mimir.
Odin became a shapeshifter, seeing in the outward world with his normal eye,
  understanding the inward worlds with his black, removed eye.

The holiday season has come a long way since then......
 It's just not the same without the festive skulls and entrails decorating the tree.


Christmas can be hard for many reasons.
 Mostly I think its the uncertainty.
 Losing love, not knowing if you can ever find a love like it.
Remember what this season really means.
Having love in your heart for someone
 will change your outlook for the season.
 It's not about the gifts.
 It's about having  love inside
 and sharing it with everyone that comes your way.
 Giving a helping hand
or a kind word to someone in need without expectation.
 Do this,
You'll receive more than you've ever dreamed of.

-Denise Lora Webster Davis-

 The Holiday Spirit

For many people, it is a time filled with sadness, self-evaluation,
loneliness, and anxiety about an uncertain future.

Depression is a lack of feeling.
When you’re depressed you can’t access feelings of self-love.
 Since the love you feel for others is a reflection of the love you feel for yourself,
there's a disconnect.
When you’re depressed you misread situations;
you perceive others as being critical of you.
Because you don’t understand what happens when you’re depressed,
 you listen to everything your depressed mind says,
and it causes havoc on relationships.

This year anxiety and depression can be a double edged sword,
12/21/12 
Not only are we depressed but ...

'The End is Near'

Hopi Prophecy


"The Fourth World shall end soon, and the Fifth World will begin."
This the elders everywhere know.
The Signs over many years have been fulfilled, and so few are left.

"And this is the Ninth and Last Sign"

 You will hear of a dwelling-place in the heavens,
 above the earth, that shall fall with a great crash.
It will appear as a blue star.
Very soon after this, the ceremonies of my people will cease.

Mayan Prophecy

On Christmas Eve 2012,
The sky is divided by the sun and all dry land begins to rise.
The oceans respond to the tectonic shifts and the great flooding of the Earth begins.
New York is washed away by a tsunami ten times greater than the Indian Ocean wave of 2004.
 Chicago returns to its swamp roots from the melting ice from the North Pole .
 The Pacific and Atlantic Oceans collide in Nebraska.


For me the world is ending on 12/21/12........

 The World of Kings and Liars

The 'Kings' are the dictators,
those who would dictate to us what we are and are not capable of.

The 'Liars' are those who misdirect us for the sake of their own agenda.

In this brave new world we are the sculptor and the clay.

 As human beings we all develop emotional patterns.
These are mental or emotional states that tend to filter how we look at our lives.
You can change your emotional mood by a radical change in your physiology.

Tough training is exactly that which keeps me motivated.
Few people are self-motivated;
they need some outside stimulus like the right atmosphere
 or a personal trainer to push them.
Some people are motivated by fear and others by love of something.
Some are motivated by the fear of looking inadequate
 or of being exposed as an imposter.
They lack self-esteem; they fear any emotion that makes them feel on the spot.
So, they go through life or their “workouts” being emotionally blind folded.
They are the ones who quit first—they have become emotionally numb.
Your feelings are the spirit behind your motivation-
don’t leave home without them or pretend you are feeling something you’re not.
 Martial arts are about being in touch with your greatest strength, your spirit.
 You cannot endure tough training without it.
 It is that sub-energy that triggers your will power.
 Without this, anyone’s search in martial arts lacks vision -
they simply wonder around lost,
 unsure of themselves and always looking for answers.
-Joe Lewis-

On 12/21/12 I'll be doing and activity that keeps me focused motivated and inspired.
I'll be at the gym on 12/21/12

Friday, December 7, 2012

Fearless Fitness/Martial Arts: Heard it before..?

Fearless Fitness/Martial Arts: Heard it before..?:   Just because you've said something a thousand times doesn't mean your students have heard it a thousand times.  -Rory Miller-   ...

Heard it before..?

 Just because you've said something a thousand times
doesn't mean your students have heard it a thousand times.
 -Rory Miller-
 
 
As a sales trainer and a martial arts trainer/coach a common term is,
 It's not so much you need to be taught as you need to be reminded.
 
I often experiment with different teaching and training methodologies.
It gives diferent perspective,
  keepin it fresh or more importantly  presenting differing viewpoints,
  improves the likelyhood of 'striking a cord' with a student or client.
As a student it's important to remind your self that you are a participant in life,
 not just an observer.
You may not 'get it' right away and thats ok, we're all wired differently.

 We are what we repeatedly do.
  -Aristotle-

You've been told this every Holiday season...so I repeat...

Replace aerobic exercise such as running with strength training,
 This will help prevent age-related fat gain.
 Research shows distance runners gain fat and increase waist size as they age.
   Sprint/interval training is the best conditioning method for fat loss,
  Use a precise interval program in order to get results.
 A round timer can help with precise work /rest intervals. 
 
Enjoy this Holiday season while staying true to your goals....
 
Joe Lewis on Okinawa-Te

 “The original system had a complete arsenal of weapon and non-weapon skills.
 It had the perfect blend of old-school pain-tolerance training,
 and scientific skills that utilized the least amount of effort and time to produce the maximum amount of damage. Its weaknesses are the amount of time it takes to learn all the long animal forms (there are 36, with one having up to 500 moves) and a lack of ‘balanced’ ground maneuvers.”
 
No system or methodology is complete,
or has all the answers but some are better than most.
 
Stay true to your goals, seek council through fellowship with like minded people
 and
' Innovate don't Immitate' !!!
-Joe Lewis-
 
 
 
 

Saturday, December 1, 2012

Fearless Fitness/Martial Arts: Who are you when im not looking ?

Fearless Fitness/Martial Arts: Who are you when im not looking ?:   “Don’t cry because it’s over. Smile because it happened.”  - Dr. Seuss -      On the inside I know what I really want.  I know...

Who are you when im not looking ?

“Don’t cry because it’s over. Smile because it happened.”
 - Dr. Seuss -
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0xXD9-1mLBY
  On the inside I know what I really want.
 I know what my values are.
 My ambition must not get in in the way.
Around me, things are falling apart;
 within me,
 they're falling together.

I've learned when you don’t understand your emotions;
you have only a limited capacity for self-respect,
 and you don’t have healthy relationships with people.


It's interesting the stories that we make up about who we are,
what we’re capable of, and what’s achievable or not.

The big question then becomes,
 how can we change our state of mind when not maximizing our true potential?

Tony Robbins poses an interesting question......
The toughest thing about chasing your dreams is managing the disciplines of persistent action and hopeful patience that are required to ultimately see the vision come to be.
This is an area of huge tension.
 How do dream chasers manage that tension and thrive?

After an exhausting weekend with the former Mikki Buckland,
 it is definitely time to move on.
In a book I read called The Energy Bus it talks about people like Mikki.
They're called Energy Vampires !!!


As human "beings" we all make mistakes...
We'd all do things differently......
 had we known then what we know now.
 What matters now is what you do now.
Let go of guilt. Let go of shame. Let go of blame.
This is "being" in the moment.
This is an empowered human being—the empowered YOU.
-Mike Klinger-

Saturday, November 17, 2012

Fearless Fitness/Martial Arts: Trial by Fire

Fearless Fitness/Martial Arts: Trial by Fire: Trial by fire or ordeal is a judicial practice by which the guilt or innocence of the accused is determined by subjecting him to an unpl...

Trial by Fire


Trial by fire or ordeal
is a judicial practice by which the guilt or innocence of the accused is determined by subjecting him to an unpleasant, usually dangerous experience.
 Classically, the test is one of life or death and the proof of innocence is survival.
 The accused is considered innocent by escaping injury or if his injuries heal.

'Ordeal by Red Hot Iron'

According to modern evolutionary theory, 
different emotions evolved at different times.
 Primal emotions or fears are associated with ancient parts of the brain.
They evolved among our pre mammal ancestors.

If you always put limits on everything you do,

physical or anything else.
 It will spread into your work and into your life.
 There are no limits.
 There are only plateaus,
 and you must not stay there,
 you must go beyond them.
-Bruce Lee-

It's said that failure to act or laziness is a sin...............

Sloth...... is defined as physical laziness or spiritual laziness.
Sloth has also been defined as a failure to do things that one should do.
 In Christian faith the definition is evil exists when good men fail to act.

In martial arts the trial by fire is the Black Belt test.

  Joe Lewis told us that for 11 minutes he wanted us to give him all of our heart.
This was probably one of the most pivotal moments in my life .
Did I experience fear....yup ...............Pain ....Hell Yea !



When I was experiencing intense pain,
 just on the other side of the suffering was an intense connection with life.
 and with being embodied, having a body and feeling sensations.
 It’s almost as if the pure experience of it was all that mattered.
I recently had the honor of watching two of my students 'trial by fire',
The pre-test for Black belt.

I know intimately the commitment and sacrifice they've made.
And
I am blessed to have shared this experience with them.

In what ways might you be avoiding the pains of daily life? 
How can you engage on your lifes' journey while saying “No” to the parts that feel difficult?

We numb ourselves by constantly pursuing achievement and in doing so, 
we miss out on the true joy that comes from actualizing our truest and deepest desires.

Fire is the origin of stone.
By working the stone with heat,
I am returning it to it's source.
-Andy Goldsworthy-

Friday, November 9, 2012

Fearless Fitness/Martial Arts: The Sacred Shroud

Fearless Fitness/Martial Arts: The Sacred Shroud: Shroud of Turin The origins of the image on the shroud are the subject of intense debate.   Scientific publications and theologians...

The Sacred Shroud


Shroud of Turin

The origins of the image on the shroud are the subject of intense debate.
  Scientific publications and theologians have presented diverse arguments for 
 authenticity and methods of forgery.

One writer says,
 The Shroud is an image of God's love as well as of human sin.
The imprint left by the tortured body of the Crucified One,
  attests to the tremendous human capacity for causing pain and death to one's fellow man,
 it stands as an icon of the suffering of the innocent in every age.

You are very powerful,
 provided you know how powerful you are.
-Yogi Bhajan-


 We try to avoid the unknown by not facing our uncertain future.
Whether it's death, failure, ridicule, pain or injury
 We avoid change because we feel  that nothing is guaranteed.
 How can we develop inner strength to grow, heal, and evolve without changing..?

Our lives are a reflection of how we handle adversity and how we inspire others to do the same.
In sales and life, your most powerful learning tool is your power of observation.
 Valuable skills can be picked up just from observing various business/personal situations.


 Once upon a time, mighty dinosaurs ruled the earth.
 They no longer even exist..... Why?
 Because they didn’t adapt to change. Don’t risk extinction!

-Dan Kennedy-

 You may think that in life, a lot of things happen to you along the way.
 The truth is, in life, you happen to a lot of things along the way.
Choosing to live your life by your own choice is the greatest freedom you will ever have.
The attributes you project and inspire in  those whose lives you touch will be your legacy.

Freeing your spirit can be as simple as loosing a little weight.....
not physical weight but emotional weight.
When we are carrying a little extra weight but we are still functional,
 we become complacent, content.
 We adapt to the 'added pounds'.
When we accept the extra pounds as part of life it sabotages our focus.



In our tradition, we die three deaths.

The first death is a physical one.
Our second death is when our bodies are lowered into the ground,
 returned to mother earth, out of sight.
The third and most definitive death is when there is no one left alive that remembers us. 


The positive attributes you project and inspire
 into the lives you touch will be your legacy.
-Robb Buckland-

Friday, November 2, 2012

Fearless Fitness/Martial Arts: Fearless Fitness/Martial Arts: The Disentigration ...

Fearless Fitness/Martial Arts: Fearless Fitness/Martial Arts: The Disentigration ...: Fearless Fitness/Martial Arts: The Disentigration of Conscience : Conscience is an aptitude , faculty , intuition or judgment of the intell...

Stealing the Thunder

Lay not up for yourselves treasures upon earth, 
where moth and rust doth corrupt,
 and where thieves break through and steal:
But lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven,
 where neither moth nor rust doth corrupt,
 and where thieves do not break through nor steal:
 For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also.

 - Matthew 6:19-21,24


Greed is more a sin of thoughtlessness and convenience than of conscious avarice,
 though it is always an appropriation of moral power,
 a stealing of thunder

Is your greed corrupting your training ?

Your fitness / martial arts training performance is handcuffed by your attitude and confidence rather than your ability.
 Using imagery or visualization improves performance, reduces anxiety, and increases confidence.
A client recently told me due to job pressures they didn't feel as though they had any time.
Especially time to train....they were "stealing their own thunder."

Any thoughts we have are subconsciously converted into our actions.
Make sure your thoughts are not converse to your actions or goals. 
Your goals birth your dreams.

ACT AS IF

To further fuel your success as a martial artist, think about adapting.
 Instead of continuing to do what doesn't work.
Change will provide a host of new opportunities.
Learn new skills,
without new skills and knowledge we become complacent and lose confidence.
 Contribute....it will empower you and fuel your passion.


SHAKE IT UP

What you eat fuels your mind and body.
It keeps you on track to achieving your goals.
It's necessary to get the most amino acids out of the food you do eat.
 High-quality protein from animal sources is your best choice.
 Supplemental whey protein can help you achieve that large daily dose of protein.
 Ain't Skeered 
Some have actually made a habit of fear
The only way you to release the grip of fear is to make a conscious decision to step out of it.
 In order to make this work,
 You have to discover your hearts passion.
  Now train your mind to accept it as a goal that you have already achieved.






Thursday, October 25, 2012

Fearless Fitness/Martial Arts: The Disentigration of Conscience

Fearless Fitness/Martial Arts: The Disentigration of Conscience: Conscience is an aptitude , faculty , intuition or judgment of the intellect . It distinguishes right from wrong.  In psych terms,  ...

I love those who can smile in trouble,
 who can gather strength from distress,
and grow brave by reflection.
 'Tis the business of little minds to shrink,
 but they whose heart is firm,
and whose conscience approves their conduct,
 will pursue their principles unto death.
-Leonardo Davinci-



http://fearsltd.blogspot.com/2012/10/the-disentigration-of-conscience.html

The Disentigration of Conscience

Conscience is an aptitude, faculty, intuition or judgment of the intellect.
It distinguishes right from wrong.
 In psych terms, 
conscience causes feelings of remorse when one commits actions that go against 
 moral values, rectitude or integrity.

Commonly used metaphors for conscience include:
 the "voice within" and the "inner light".

Often small events in life that turn out to be the catalyst for transformation.
Some times your struggle and search will lead to your passion.
When finding and living your life passion, you need a logical plan of action.

I love those who can smile in trouble,
 who can gather strength from distress,
and grow brave by reflection.
 'Tis the business of little minds to shrink,
 but they whose heart is firm,
and whose conscience approves their conduct,
 will pursue their principles unto death.

-Leonardo Davinci-

To begin creating your own better self, you must learn to balance
 your head and your heart. 
 Relying on your heart to inform your thoughts will force you to evolve.
Baby steps..... Small acts can do the job.
Grand gestures and acts of heroism are not necessary to achieve this.

Give yourself permission to express emotions.
 Alot of times I'm accused of being passive aggressive because I do this. 
When you express emotions such as anger, sadness, guilt,
 or shame you're are perceived to be negative..... or weak.
In communicating your emotions, it’s not only about the words you say.
Your intention is also extremely important.
 Be careful that you are not expecting the other person to make you feel better.
This often leads to anger, frustration, and disappointment.
Martial Arts vs Bullying
Violence in any form implies a loss of self-control. 

Joe Lewis taught us,
martial arts instructors reinforce behavior codes that are about acquiring an attitude of self-control. 
 The last stronghold of maintaining a non-violent society lies with the
martial arts industry.

Wisdom is knowing what to do next;
Skill is knowing how to do it,
 and Courage is doing it.
-Joe Lewis-

Wednesday, October 17, 2012

Fearless Fitness/Martial Arts: Not ......a Muse

Fearless Fitness/Martial Arts: Not ......a Muse: The Muses ( Ancient Greek : Μοῦσαι , moũsai : [1] perhaps from the o-grade of the Proto-Indo-European root * men- "think" [2] ) in Gree...

Not ......a Muse

The Muses (Ancient Greek: Μοῦσαι, moũsai:[1in Greek mythology, poetry, and literature, are the goddesses of the inspiration of literature, science and the arts.
They were considered the source of the knowledge,related orally for centuries in the ancient culture that was contained in poetic lyrics and myths.
 A teacher affects eternity;
 he can never tell where his influence stops.
- Henry Adams-

 Think of someone who has charisma or impact.
 Have you noticed.....?
 They have an abundance of spiritual, emotional, or physical energy.                
   They project and receive it !!!!
Every successful person brings a different style of energy into their environment.
Success is derived from your passion.

Communicate with intensity from your heart.

 I experienced the most inspiring moments and lessons during time spent
 in parking lots, restaurants and car rides with my friend and mentor Joe Lewis.


 I care not what others think of what I do,
 but I care very much about what I think of what I do!
That is character!
  Theodore Roosevelt

You should expect support and encouragement from people that are close to you.
REMEMBER
Life is short, it's disheartening to have people around you that discourage you.
Do you really want to waste your time feeling down over others words or opinions ?

I recently changed sales teams........I'm still a 'road warrior',
 but my real job is now something I'm happy and look forward to doing.
 For the first time in along time I love sales again....yup, you heard that right,
I LOVE MY JOB 
A lot of people go through the motions in life, not doing what they love.
 They end up constantly looking back, asking themselves,
 What if ?
Whether people support you or not,
 Follow your heart, and not the words of others just to live up to their expectations.
Your LOVE is the most important thing in your life.

Tony Robbins says......
Great leaders are purpose driven. They know not only what to do,
but why they are doing it and are able to help others tap into the power of WHY.
The more you can share the driving purpose behind an outcome or activity,
the more you enable your team to tap into what they desire, believe, or value.

This produces greater team performance and makes you a more effective leader.